Feminists believe that all men are evil abusers.
When a man abuses them, deep down they feel a creamy sense of satisfaction. Their belief has been validated.
Therefore they carefully craft a life, and surround themselves with people who will create more of this abuse.
Thus further confirming their belief structure.
This type of mentality has been studied and explored by countless psychologists, and is well-understood by all people with common sense.
Also, there is a more dangerous issue, here.
Men are very "susceptible" to women's opinions of us. Let's face it guys, when we get married, we are very likely to start changing in response to our woman's needs. We can't help it...her emotions are so strong, and our sense of responsibility to her is so deep, that we can't help but slowly become the man she envisions us to be.
That can be good, or bad. A man who is married to an angry feminist will often become more abusive, fulfilling her expectations of him. She accuses him of shit he didn't do...finally he thinks "well, if she's going to treat me like a scumbag, then by golly I should just go ahead and be a scumbag."
On the other hand, a man who marries a loving woman (who trusts men) will usually become more worthy of trust, thus fulfilling her expectations of him.
The old cliche of "behind every great man is great woman" is so true.
Men, choose your wife carefully. Her mental image of men will probably become your destiny. Avoid women who think badly of men (which as you know, includes the vast majority of American women).
American women have been born and raised in the corrosive negative world of feminism. They can't help but think like a feminist and view the world like a feminist.
So they have learned to always emphasize the negative things about men, never the positive. In any given opportunity...
instead of saying "he's protective" they'll say "he's oppressive"
instead of saying "he's smart" they'll complain "he demeans my intelligence"
instead of saying "he's hard-working" they'll say "he's obsessed with work"
instead of saying "he's confident" they'll say "he's an ego-monster"
The bottom line...every one of your qualities will be spun as a NEGATIVE, not a positive.
Of course, they don't do this when you are dating. All women put up a good face early on. Later, after a few years of marriage, suddenly the real woman will emerge, and you will subjected to negative diatribes about you, day in, day out, like a constant weight on your shoulders.
So when you marry a feminist, you will slowly change to become the bad man that she sees. All the negative aspects of you (which you've probably learned to suppress and minimize) will suddenly start to crop up again. Eventually you'll say "well, fuck it, if she's going to attack me for a bad habit anyway, I might as well indulge in it."
She will bring out the worst in you.
And of course, she'll be happy, because then she can scamper off to her feminist-asshole friends and say "SEE! We're right! Men really ARE as bad as we've said!"