100% of divorced men wish they had read this website before proposing.

IMPORTANT NOTE: This site is a restoration of the original "no marriage" site as it existed between 2003-2009.

Frequently Asked Questions About

What is about?

The purpose of the website is to allow men to better understand two very important issues that get very little attention:

  • 4 out of 5 men regret marrying.

    Divorce rate is around 60%. Majority of remaining married men are stuck in sexless marriages with nagging and bitching wives, but they choose not to divorce because they are afraid of being wiped out financially during divorce.

    Furthermore, majority of relatively happy marriages are among very religious people, people choosing to live a simple lifestyle, people living in the rural South/Midwest, and recent Hispanic immigrants. If you are a normal American guy living in a large metropolitan area marrying a normal college-educated American woman who is looking for the American dream (a nice house, kids, good life), then you are extremely likely to either get divorced or trapped in a miserable marriage.

  • Foreign women from Latin America, Eastern Europe, and Asia make much better wives than American women.

    An American woman has several fundamental problems that will never go away and that will get much worse a few years after she is married:

  • Her inherent anti-male bias and pre-occupation with fairness that was drilled into her at high school, college, and through the media. Her constant confrontations and trying to prove herself and to make a point.

  • Her self-centeredness, her ridiculously high expectations, her sense of entitlement, her high-maintenance, superficial, and stuck-up attitude, her snootiness and her sense of superiority. This "princess" syndrome means that she will always think that she is better than you, and that she deserves and she is entitled to whatever she wants from you.

  • Her general mental instability and psychological disorders.

  • Her using sex as a weapon and reward to get things.

    Foreign women generally don't have any of these problems. Marrying an American woman simply does not make sense. The ONLY reason men stay with American women is because they did not have enough exposure to foreign women. Any man who spent a few months in Brazil or Russia will not even look at American women again.

    Dating or being married to an American woman is like driving a beat-up Ford Escort. If you are only used to driving a beat-up Ford Escort, then you have no idea what it feels like when you drive a Bentley or Ferrari.

    Is this website for real?

    Yes. This website is very serious. Most men are in denial about this subject until after they are already trapped. Do yourself a favor and don't delude yourself by thinking that "you are different" and "it's not going to happen to you."

    Again, this is dead serious. Marrying a modern western woman will probably be the biggest regret of your life.

    But my girlfriend is great...

    A modern western woman is fine for a short-term relationship (particularly if it's mostly focused on sex). The problems start after marriage, particularly after you have children. A modern western woman is raised to become an awful wife. Nothing can be done about it; the problems are in her head and they are 100% incurable and only get worse the more you are with her. Marrying a modern western woman is the game you simply do not want to play; the only possible outcome is that you become a loser.

    Read my book. It'll be the best time you'll ever spend on this subject.

    Is this website about all American/Western women?

    Women to avoid are women interested in Career, Personal Success, Personal Growth, Finding Themselves, and Self-improvement.

    That includes all career women and the majority of other North American and Western European women. I mostly use "American woman" throughout the website because it bacame synonymous with everything that is wrong with modern western women. Substitute American with British, Canadian, Australian, Scandinavian, etc if you don't live in the US.

    How and why did you start the website?

    Around the year 2000 I was in my late 20s and I noticed that almost all American women around me are either already mentally unstable, or they become mentally unstable after marriage. So married men are forced to live their lives constantly trying to please their wife's ever-evolving needs and wants, as well as constantly trying to prove and validate themselves to their wives. I started doing surveys and researching it further. I then put together the website and wrote the book. This whole thing is a public service announcement more than anything else.

    Is the website written by you?

    Most of it is not. It's a collective thinking of many different men (I found most of it on various discussion forums). The book is written by me.

    Why are you against children?

    I am not against children at all. I just don't want my children to be raised by a modern western woman, whom I view as a selfish parasite. "Anti-children" rhetoric on my site is not about any anti-children ideology; they are just quotes that reflect the reality that many parents regret having children for whatever reasons.

    Are you divorced?

    I have never been married and I don't have children. At this point I have very little contact with western women. I am not interested in getting married because I don't want to have children at this time. I will only marry a woman from Latin America if I ever decide I want to have children, and I will most likely move to Latin America permanently by then.

    I am trapped in a bad marriage. What should I do?

    I can't tell you what to do about your marriage, but I can suggest you take a long vacation in Brazil so you can get a perspective on how real women can be.

    What are people saying about your site/book?

    Here are some some of the comments:

    "I HAD to email to say, I wish I had visited your site four years ago! I've travelled overseas a lot, and everything you write is 95% true! If I had seen your site before, I wouldn't be saddled with two kids and an ungrateful wife who cares nothing about her appearances since the marriage! I would kill, at this point, to be able to take your advice about foreign women! Anyway, for all men who haven't been suckered yet, I want to thank you much for your services and hope that everyone that sees your site takes your advice! Again, thank you."

    "Good to see that someone is running an informative website where men who are in denial and the inexperienced youth can go and read the truth."

    "This is so true...
    it should be in the Bible, under the Psalms..."

    Good write-up about the site written by a woman - check it out if you are still skeptical.

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