100% of divorced men wish they had read this website before proposing.

IMPORTANT NOTE: This site is a restoration of the original "no marriage" site as it existed between 2003-2009.

Marry only if YOU want children.

Marriage today is really for weak men or for men who want to raise a family.

I'd rather be single or have sex with prostitutes in Germany, Australia, etc., than spend the last fifty years of my life chained to a nagging, bitchy woman who could screw me in divorce court at the drop of a hat.

I don't get lonely. I'm not needy, insecure, dependent. I don't need the security blanket of a lifetime companion.

The only reason I would ever get married is for having kids.. and for that, there is no way I'd marry an American woman.

If I were looking for a good housewife, mother and role model for my children, foreign women (and American women pre-1950s) fit the bill much better.

Women need proof that if they're going to have your kids, you'll be around to take care of them (and that if you break up, you'll bear part of the burden of raising them). So, if you're not having kids, I don't see the point.

Lots of guys are wising up to this fact.

The best piece of advice ever given to me was "only get married if you are absolutely sure you want to have kids." As it turns out, I was absolutely sure and finally got married.

I took a long time to find the right woman. It's a lot of work, but I am happy because the lady I ended up with is an equal in most every way. She is very capable and not looking for "someone to take care of her."

Important Note: This site has no advertising and no products for sale. We are fans of the original "no marriage" site, which is now located at We have restored the original site for the public.

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